strange_complex: (C J Cregg)
strange_complex ([personal profile] strange_complex) wrote2005-06-23 02:57 pm
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Piano man

You may remember the story of the 'Piano Man', who was found wandering in the rain in Kent in April. He was taken to Medway Maritime Hospital, and although unable or unwilling to speak or write words, he did draw a picture of a grand piano, and played fluently upon the hospital's chapel piano when taken to it by staff.

The story has very much dropped out of the news, but it stuck in my mind enough to make me wonder what had become of this man, and do a bit of Googling today to try to find out. I rather assumed there would have been a happy resolution by now, even if the press hadn't bothered to report it, since a full two months have passed since he was found.

Sadly, however, there has not. I found a series of press statements about him made by Kent and Medway NHS since he was brought into their care, and statement 10 reveals that, as of yesterday, his identity had still not been established, despite 200 possible names being supplied by the public. He is still being cared for by the hospital, still unnamed, still not communicating by any means other than music.

I don't know whether my interest in him is real compassion or mere curiosity. But communicating in words is such a fundamental part of being human that it is hard not to feel frustrated for someone who has locked themselves out from doing so, and to long to help them to reintegrate themselves into the great human conversation. And his ability to communicate through the piano of course only throws his linguistic silence into sharper relief, making it all the more unbearable that he does not speak, because it hints (probably misleadingly) that he would say fine and profound things if he did. I know there are many people in the world much worse off than him, but his story touches me strangely. I hope he finds himself soon.

[identity profile] ditzy-pole.livejournal.com 2005-06-24 11:47 am (UTC)(link)
I think most of us girls have fantasies about him! There is something about him that I can't quite put my finger on...

[identity profile] rosamicula.livejournal.com 2005-06-26 01:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Usually just being tall, slender and from Eastern Europe is enough for me.... Factor in mysterious and talented and silent and I'm completely lost.

dizty_pole eh? :))

[identity profile] ditzy-pole.livejournal.com 2005-06-26 05:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Well one thing I can grant Eastern European men is that they know how to make a girl feel on top of the world! (at least the ones that haven't migrated to the West and been spoiled by it)...

And yes in my circle of friends I am indeed the 'token Eastern European mad bint' :o) Since I am the only one (that I am aware of) I feel it necessary to carry on the stereotype of vodka drinking :o) But in my defence once you had a taste of cherry liquer vodka you won't be wanting to put it down... ;o)

[identity profile] rosamicula.livejournal.com 2005-06-26 08:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Mmm vodka. Double mmm Cherry vodka.

Got any lovely Eastern European men you can introduce me to?

I may have to friend you, just in case.

[identity profile] ditzy-pole.livejournal.com 2005-06-26 09:46 pm (UTC)(link)
The cherry vodka works best when you have a supply of dark chocolate (even Lindt's 70% cocoa will do) for the dipping and cherries to bite on after the shot, although judging by how I am today I might've slightly overdone it...

I might know one or two men ;o) Actually I'm heading over there for August to expand my horizons (and to get cheap fags and booze)... So if I find any worthy ones I shall happily pass them your way, hence why I am friending you back :o)

[identity profile] rosamicula.livejournal.com 2005-06-26 10:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Bless you darling!

I am trying to persuade a friend to go to Poland with me for a weekend in August actually - I'm just hoping the men are as cheap as the fags and the booze....

[identity profile] ditzy-pole.livejournal.com 2005-06-26 10:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh I wouldn't go for the 'cheap' option if I were you - when abroad, regardless of setting, a gal should/deserves to be wined and dined to her hearts content! :o) There are quite a few men out there... I was lucky in that within a couple of days I acquired a nice boy that was willing to bend over backwards for me... Not that it's something I make a habit of...