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strange_complexYou may remember the story of the 'Piano Man', who was found wandering in the rain in Kent in April. He was taken to Medway Maritime Hospital, and although unable or unwilling to speak or write words, he did draw a picture of a grand piano, and played fluently upon the hospital's chapel piano when taken to it by staff.
The story has very much dropped out of the news, but it stuck in my mind enough to make me wonder what had become of this man, and do a bit of Googling today to try to find out. I rather assumed there would have been a happy resolution by now, even if the press hadn't bothered to report it, since a full two months have passed since he was found.
Sadly, however, there has not. I found a series of press statements about him made by Kent and Medway NHS since he was brought into their care, and statement 10 reveals that, as of yesterday, his identity had still not been established, despite 200 possible names being supplied by the public. He is still being cared for by the hospital, still unnamed, still not communicating by any means other than music.
I don't know whether my interest in him is real compassion or mere curiosity. But communicating in words is such a fundamental part of being human that it is hard not to feel frustrated for someone who has locked themselves out from doing so, and to long to help them to reintegrate themselves into the great human conversation. And his ability to communicate through the piano of course only throws his linguistic silence into sharper relief, making it all the more unbearable that he does not speak, because it hints (probably misleadingly) that he would say fine and profound things if he did. I know there are many people in the world much worse off than him, but his story touches me strangely. I hope he finds himself soon.
The story has very much dropped out of the news, but it stuck in my mind enough to make me wonder what had become of this man, and do a bit of Googling today to try to find out. I rather assumed there would have been a happy resolution by now, even if the press hadn't bothered to report it, since a full two months have passed since he was found.
Sadly, however, there has not. I found a series of press statements about him made by Kent and Medway NHS since he was brought into their care, and statement 10 reveals that, as of yesterday, his identity had still not been established, despite 200 possible names being supplied by the public. He is still being cared for by the hospital, still unnamed, still not communicating by any means other than music.
I don't know whether my interest in him is real compassion or mere curiosity. But communicating in words is such a fundamental part of being human that it is hard not to feel frustrated for someone who has locked themselves out from doing so, and to long to help them to reintegrate themselves into the great human conversation. And his ability to communicate through the piano of course only throws his linguistic silence into sharper relief, making it all the more unbearable that he does not speak, because it hints (probably misleadingly) that he would say fine and profound things if he did. I know there are many people in the world much worse off than him, but his story touches me strangely. I hope he finds himself soon.
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Date: Thursday, 23 June 2005 14:31 (UTC)no subject
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Date: Thursday, 23 June 2005 20:38 (UTC)Actually, it struck me that the similarity between the name he's been given and your LJ pseudonyms makes him sound as though he must be one of your cast-off ex-lovers. You didn't dump a piano-player on the Kentish coast, did you? ;)
hmmm,I cannot see him,the links do not work for me,SURPRISE
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Date: Thursday, 23 June 2005 21:17 (UTC)no subject
Date: Friday, 24 June 2005 11:46 (UTC)This is just a slightly more descriptive version of the original article.
http://edition.cnn.com/2005/WORLD/europe/05/29/uk.pianoman/
In the Metro paper a couple of weeks ago they had an article stating that this was a hoax - they claimed that it was a band member or someone of the sorts trying to get publicity to regain his failing career. Funnily enough the story was quickly dismissed!
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Date: Friday, 24 June 2005 11:47 (UTC)no subject
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Date: Sunday, 26 June 2005 13:40 (UTC)dizty_pole eh? :))
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Date: Sunday, 26 June 2005 17:31 (UTC)And yes in my circle of friends I am indeed the 'token Eastern European mad bint' :o) Since I am the only one (that I am aware of) I feel it necessary to carry on the stereotype of vodka drinking :o) But in my defence once you had a taste of cherry liquer vodka you won't be wanting to put it down... ;o)
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Date: Sunday, 26 June 2005 17:33 (UTC)no subject
Date: Sunday, 26 June 2005 20:48 (UTC)Got any lovely Eastern European men you can introduce me to?
I may have to friend you, just in case.
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Date: Sunday, 26 June 2005 21:46 (UTC)I might know one or two men ;o) Actually I'm heading over there for August to expand my horizons (and to get cheap fags and booze)... So if I find any worthy ones I shall happily pass them your way, hence why I am friending you back :o)
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Date: Sunday, 26 June 2005 22:31 (UTC)I am trying to persuade a friend to go to Poland with me for a weekend in August actually - I'm just hoping the men are as cheap as the fags and the booze....
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Date: Thursday, 28 July 2005 18:33 (UTC)i also read that for a while he wasn't ALLOWED a piano in his room. Shocking inhumanity to a man whose only means of communication it is.